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Polyvagal Theory
Why Polyvagal Theory Matters for Healing
You’ve probably had a day where you felt calm one moment and overwhelmed the next. Nothing big happened, but your body shifted. You didn’t choose it. It just happened.
That’s your nervous system at work.
Polyvagal Theory helps explain this. It shows how your body listens for safety before your mind even catches up. This process happens all day, every day, without you trying.
Your nervous system is not overreacting. It is protecting you.
What Is Polyvagal Theory?
Polyvagal Theory was developed by Dr. Stephen Porges. It explains how your autonomic nervous system responds to safety, danger, and life itself.
Your autonomic nervous system is what runs your survival responses. You don’t control it with your thoughts. It’s what makes your heart beat faster when you’re startled. It’s what helps you relax when you feel safe. It’s what shuts you down when things feel too overwhelming.
This system has two main parts: the sympathetic and parasympathetic branches.
The Sympathetic System: Fight or Flight
This part of your nervous system gets you ready to move. It speeds up your heart rate, tenses your muscles, and sends energy to your limbs. You might feel alert, anxious, angry, or restless. This is the part that helps you run or fight when danger shows up.
The Parasympathetic System: Rest and Reset
This is the part that helps you slow down. It supports digestion, sleep, healing, and connection.
But Polyvagal Theory teaches that this system has two branches with very different effects.
Branch 1: Ventral Vagal Branch (Safe and Social)
This branch is the part of you that feels calm, grounded, and open. It helps you connect with others, speak clearly, and listen with presence. When this part is active, your body feels safe. You feel steady. You can make decisions. You can create.
Branch 2: Dorsal Vagal Branch (Shut Down)
This branch is also part of the parasympathetic system, but it serves a different purpose. It protects you when life feels too heavy or unsafe to handle. This is the freeze response. You might feel numb, tired, hopeless, or disconnected. You may even feel like you’re disappearing inside yourself.
Your body moves through these states to protect you.
These are not personality flaws or signs of weakness.
They are survival patterns.
The problem is not that you go into fight, flight, or freeze.
The problem is when you get stuck there.
This is where healing comes in.
Awareness Comes First
Healing starts by noticing your state. Ask yourself:
Do I feel calm or restless?
Do I feel connected or shut down?
Is my body ready to respond or too tired to move?
This kind of awareness is nonjudgmental. You are not trying to fix yourself. You are learning to understand what your body is doing and why.
Compassion Changes Everything
Once you see what state you are in, the next step is kindness. Talk to yourself with the same softness you would offer a child. That tone of voice matters. It signals safety. Safety is what helps your system shift.
According to Polyvagal Theory, safety cues like a kind voice or a calm presence can move your system toward connection. This is not fluffy self-care. This is nervous system repair. THIS is Restoration.
Choice Returns When Safety Is Felt
Once your body feels safe, your ability to choose comes back online. You can make decisions again. You can set boundaries. You can ask for help. You can imagine a future.
This is why the AC²™ Method begins with awareness and compassion. Only then can true choice happen. Not forced. Not rushed. Not performed. Just honest and real.
As Dr. Porges says, "Safety is the treatment."
And that is the truth. You don’t need to know everything, or be fixed. You need to feel safe enough to become yourself again.
Hey, I'm Christa…
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